Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Family Gifts

With all the winding and turnings of this journey, it has been common to find little surprises and joys nestled in the nooks and crannies on this path. These are little love gifts from the Lord. Clearly, it seems this is His way of reminding us that He is very present and very near as he makes this journey with us.

On Monday my cousins, the "B's", made a special trip from California to come see Mom. Their mother, Helen, was my mom's sister. Aunt Helen died a year ago, as did their father, Tom, within 5 weeks of each other. It was an extremely difficult time. We were able to see the "B's" last year at this time, as they brought their parents, who were native Oregonians, up here to be buried with other family members. My own little family was also able to see a few of them during our recent October vacation to California.

When I sent an email to these cousins updating them on Mom's health a week ago, I mentioned to them that one of mom's last wishes was to see her nephews again. By day's end, each of them had contacted me to let me know they were all able to fly up on Monday to see her! Within 24 hours, airline tickets were bought and a surprise for Mom was set in motion.

So, this last MLK, Jr. day, Mom was so pleased, and absolutely beaming, to be seeing her nephews in person. Although very fatigued, she hung in there and visited for the 6 hours they were here. We laughed, shared stories, and even got tears in our eyes from time to time. My cousins were able to say their good-byes and we were able to connect even more, making further plans for all of us to make a Thanksgiving trip to southern California. It was such a special day.

What a sweet gift that these dear nephews gave to their aunt; and such a comfort and joy these California cousins brought to their cousins in Oregon. We all were truly blessed.

1 comment:

  1. so glad your cousins were able to make it out! some organization paid for my plane ticket, as well as a plane ticket for my mom's sister who lived in oklahoma (whom she hadn't seen in YEARS) to come be by her bedside during those final days. i can't remember which organization it was, but similar to "make a wish." anyway, i'm really glad everyone was able to say their "byes" (it's not GOODbye, b/c you will all see each other again!) love you and am always praying for you. -Becci

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